Just wanted to let you know my Mother is not speaking to me at all. I know there is something God wants me to do but havent figured it out yet. There is always hope.
Quote from: spiritwarrior1953 on May 01, 2006, 08:07:07 AM
Just wanted to let you know my Mother is not speaking to me at all. I know there is something God wants me to do but havent figured it out yet. There is always hope.
Spirit, I'm so sorry that things have turned out like they have. Hopefully Mom will realize that she's hurting you and come around. I'll keep you and your family in my prayers.
Just breaks my heart to read that about your mom.. I hope you 2 can make up soon..Life is to short
pray for her,I'm sorry things are so bad between you life's to short to hold grudges good luck and god bless <3
so sorry spirit about you and your mom life is to short i lost my mama 5 years ago this week and i miss her so hope you and your mama get back together :(
i have lived all my life with my mother blatently being opposed to me - so much so that others in the family and outside of the family noticed. ever since i was a small child. it took me until three years ago to come to terms with it. however, once i did, my life is at peace. i have done as my therapist said, written my mother off as poison. it is the only way i can survive. do i feel sorry for what happened - i used to have this poor me attitude. once i learned that it was her fault for doing this crap, i was able to move on. we cannot control how others act. we are only responsible for ourselves. how we choose to react to them is what we are ultimately responsible for. i am at peace. it may not be the right choice for everyone, but for me, it saved my life.
i`m so happy you are at peace krispy that is what matters most :(
Quote from: mama on May 01, 2006, 07:54:18 PM
i`m so happy you are at peace krispy that is what matters most :(
lol - gets me out of hosting christmas and thanksgiving, lol, cuz she hasnt been to my house 5 times in 12 years, lol
well thats a good one :)) :)) and krispy it is her lose not yours you seem to be a very sweet and nice person you be at peace and happy ;D
Quote from: mama on May 01, 2006, 07:58:00 PM
well thats a good one :)) :)) and krispy it is her lose not yours you seem to be a very sweet and nice person you be at peace and happy ;D
you know what mama? that is a really nice thing you said. and yes, i am really happy. i have a wonderful man in my life and even after a year with him, every day is special. life can begin again in your forties, lol.
Krispy, it's sad how things turned out for you but at least you've dealt with it, accepted it and moved on. Being at peace with yourself is a huge step and you can be proud of yourself. ;)
spirit im so sorry i had problems with my mom so i didnt talk to her for 5 years and she came to deal with her issues cause she didnt want to lose me....krispy im proud of you for not letting anything standing in your way :) you and helen seem like really strong women and maybe thats what america needs more strong women........yes write this up somewhere a guy wrote this...
Quote from: stewieG on May 01, 2006, 08:11:01 PM
spirit im so sorry i had problems with my mom so i didnt talk to her for 5 years and she came to deal with her issues cause she didnt want to lose me....krispy im proud of you for not letting anything standing in your way :) you and helen seem like really strong women and maybe thats what america needs more strong women........yes write this up somewhere a guy wrote this...
Thank you Stewie....those were very kind words and greatly appreciated. :)
Quote from: stewieG on May 01, 2006, 08:11:01 PM
spirit im so sorry i had problems with my mom so i didnt talk to her for 5 years and she came to deal with her issues cause she didnt want to lose me....krispy im proud of you for not letting anything standing in your way :) you and helen seem like really strong women and maybe thats what america needs more strong women........yes write this up somewhere a guy wrote this...
omg i am sure glad i remembered you were a guy, lol, j/k. ty and ty helen
Quote from: krispy on May 01, 2006, 08:17:43 PM
Quote from: stewieG on May 01, 2006, 08:11:01 PM
spirit im so sorry i had problems with my mom so i didnt talk to her for 5 years and she came to deal with her issues cause she didnt want to lose me....krispy im proud of you for not letting anything standing in your way :) you and helen seem like really strong women and maybe thats what america needs more strong women........yes write this up somewhere a guy wrote this...
omg i am sure glad i remembered you were a guy, lol, j/k. ty and ty helen
Krispy, you still having a problem with the gender thing? .....and you're welcome. ;)
Quote from: spiritwarrior1953 on May 01, 2006, 08:07:07 AM
Just wanted to let you know my Mother is not speaking to me at all. I know there is something God wants me to do but havent figured it out yet. There is always hope.
Just keep your head up. Everything will work out. I've been through similar things with my Dad a few times. They get stubborn on us, because they think they are always right. Kind of like how we always think we are.
Thanks everyone I will be there any time shes needs me. And it will work out. Krispy in my studies of all things offbeat I have come to believe there are some people that are gray. They exist to make others merisable. It takes a true spirit to see and walk away. You sound happy and sure of yourself. Congrats. And Stewie I can seem to keep up with your gender what are you male female or other 8)
im a guy lol what do you mean by other???? lol or do i even want to know?
Quote from: stewieG on May 02, 2006, 05:26:19 AM
im a guy lol what do you mean by other???? lol or do i even want to know?
A suggestion would to be put Male in your profile so everyone will know. Kinda like ILoveNickLachey, I thought it was a Female till I read the profile.... :-\
ok will do didnt really know it was important to have my profile done but i will
Quote from: stewieG on May 02, 2006, 05:33:18 AM
ok will do didnt really know it was important to have my profile done but i will
Good morning Stewie. It's not necessary to fill out the profile but it will keep you from always having to answer what "gender" you are. O0
Stewie just having fun with you. I would bet you are 150% MALE <3
it's heartbreaking when family members dont speak. my younger sis and i had a fight.. well.. i wasn't that mad but she took it way way way out of context and we didn't speak for 7 months. my mom tried to tell me to say sorry but i'm stubborn and thought she should say she was sorry... well... i broke down and called her and said i was sorry.. well.. i cried to her i was sorry and everything is ok now. she's sorry i'm sorry.. we're all sorry.. maybe if u called ur mom even tho things may not be your fault and told her that you are sorry for anything that has caused her to be mad at you.. being the bigger person in some situations is harder to do.. specially when it's a mom that is being tight lipped. just a thought. send her a card. <3
I glad you and your sister worked it out. In this case the only person she needs to make peace with is my daughter. She disowned her and said she wouldnt be bother by her anymore. My daughter has never asked her for anything. So when she wrote my daughter off she wrote me off too. She is my mother and I do love her and will be there when she needs me. But dont mess with my child relative or not
Quote from: spiritwarrior1953 on May 02, 2006, 08:21:20 AM
But dont mess with my child relative or not
yep yep yep, i hear that loud and clear. my daughter was sexually assaulted when she was 15 by a relative. i prosecuted the bugger and they went to jail. you are right, nobody messes with my children. luckily, my girls are grown independent young women pursuing master degrees in college at the moment. how lucky they are to be so positive of who they are and where they want to go. i appreciate vision.
Quote from: spiritwarrior1953 on May 02, 2006, 08:21:20 AM
I glad you and your sister worked it out. In this case the only person she needs to make peace with is my daughter. She disowned her and said she wouldnt be bother by her anymore. My daughter has never asked her for anything. So when she wrote my daughter off she wrote me off too. She is my mother and I do love her and will be there when she needs me. But dont mess with my child relative or not
wow. i'm sorry i didn't know. that is a sticky situation. but i'm glad that you are standing up for your daughter!! i pray things work out. <3 in the words of captian and tenille? love... love will keep us together... dooo dooo doo dod dooo.. i forget the rest.